08 December 2007

Home Again, Home Again


So we made it through the whole week! Most importantly, Oliver's surgery went well. But the rest of the week was pretty exciting, too.


First things first -- how is Oliver? He is doing really well! We were able to take him home that day. Which seemed great at the time, but at about 3 a.m. seemed like a horrible idea. He woke up with such a scratchy, wheezy throat that we almost took him to the emergency room. It was probably from the breathing tube that they used during surgery, but it just sounded so bad. But since he was able to eat, I figured his airway must be clear. So we waited it out and he was fine. We also realized, thanks to my mom, that the Oxycontin pain medication they prescribed was unnecessary since he has no feeling below his knees. Thank goodness I only gave him one dose before we realized this. So he has been med-free since Thursday night and he seems to be fine. It's always a little disappointing to get more confirmation that he really has no feeling down there. Of course I know it to be true, but sometimes wonder if maybe they were wrong and that he has a little sensation. I think that this proves beyond a doubt that he doesn't. But he is healthy, alert, and suffering no side-effects of anesthesia, so I proclaim the surgery a huge success!! Of course, one cast seems to be sliding down already, so I suspect our two-week follow up might turn into a one-week visit.


Wednesday I had my Penn State interview, which I think went really well. It was at the Abington College campus, which is located in Eastern PA., about an hour from our house. It is a beautiful campus. It was once an elite women's college attended by Amelia Earhart, among others. It is a much smaller school than I am used to. Although it is part of the Penn State system, it is also sort of a stand alone school. I would liken it maybe to Rutgers Camden (but probably safer). So the academic rigor isn't as great, but they are really nice people who seem interested in letting whoever they hire (me! me!) develop a good research agenda as well as teach. I liked the people who did the interviewing, and they seemed to like me. I also had to teach a class on PR theory, which actually went really well. All in all it was a good day. They told me I can expect to hear back anywhere from next week through mid-January.


On my way home from Penn State, I got a call from Montclair State University. They said that I had made it to their short list and that they wanted to schedule a phone interview for FRIDAY! So of course I said yes, even though Friday was already packed with my pre-proposal presentation. But how could I turn down an interview? So Friday morning I "met" with 4 faculty members from Montclair State for a 30-minute phone interview. They are a bit of a bigger school with more of a research focus than Penn State Abington. They seem to follow the Rutgers model of expectations a lot more than Penn State. So more opportunity and a larger department of colleagues, but less time to develop my own interests and/or have down time with my family. I didn't get into a discussion of pay with them, but I suspect I could also make a bit more money there. Of course, I have to get the job first. They said that they would further narrow down their list, and get back to candidates in late January - mid-February. The interview went really well, but I think that not having my dissertation done might have counted against me, so I'm not sure what to expect. More waiting.


Finally, I had my pre-proposal presentation on Friday afternoon. Basically, I just presented what I have written so far of my dissertation in front of faculty and colleagues at school. Luckily, it was a small audience. As I watched the person before me struggle through her presentation and then get totally blasted with questions, I just sank lower and lower into my chair. I could sense no good presentation karma coming my way. I hadn't really had time to practice (at all!) and figured I was about to pay for it. But it wound up going really well. I was able to get through the presentation and answer any questions that people posed. I had one or two GLARING typos in my PowerPoint ("two" instead of "to" -- I don't even know how I did that!), but it worked out okay. So now I am onto the next phase of my dissertation. It's a sort of false milestone, kind of like graduating from Kindergarten, but still one that I needed to get through in order to get done. So now I'm on my way!

06 December 2007

Waiting...

So we're in the Surgical Waiting Center at CHOP, waiting for Oliver to come out of surgery. He was such a good little baby while we waited for the surgery to begin. He couldn't eat after 6 a.m. so I woke up at 5 to feed him and then went back to sleep until 6:30 or so. Then we got up and got ready to leave. I had to give Oliver a bath, since I didn't know how long the casts were going to be on him after the surgery. We haven't had casts on for 2 weeks now and it's been so nice. I can give him baths, and I love to see his little feet! After his bath he got his neublizer treatement. Tim's mom came over and brought us coffee, which was great. We were just about to leave when Mac woke up. She was so cute -- she had to give her little brother so many kisses before he left. I don't usually tell her that we are going to the doctor/hospital for Oliver -- she never asks, I never tell. But she found out today and seemed to sad to see him go. But by the time we left she was happy to spend the day (and have a sleepover) with Nanny Nancy.

We got to CHOP 10 minutes late. Not too bad for us. Each time we're late for something here I'm so nervous, but then we sit around and wait. And that's what we did today. We waited for about 45 minutes before they called us into our little pre-op cubby. Then they took his medical history again, and weighed him to be sure the anesthesia level was correct. The little porkchop has gained almost a pound since his weigh in 2 weeks ago. This brings him to 7 1/2 pounds in just under 4 months!

The anesthesiologist just came out and told me that they are done and everything is fine. We can go see him soon! They warned me that because of his "well-fed state," they couldn't get the IV in so he is a bit bruised. Poor little man. But he didn't feel it because he was already asleep. And now the doctor came out and told us that all went well. They released the tendons and his feet are at a 90 degree angle. We have to bring him back in 2 weeks for new casts. I can't wait to go see him!

Since our wait was cut short, you'll be spared my description of all of the great things that CHOP has to offer parents -- for now. Let's just say that if you have the "parent bracelet" you get free coffee at the McDonald's downstairs. Could you imagine if it was a Starbucks -- I'd never leave!

02 December 2007

As if life wasn't exciting enough...

It's snowing!
Mac has started to use the potty!
I got bangs!

Ooh-di-lolly!

30 November 2007

We've Got to Keep on Movin'

We have a potentially busy week ahead. Hopefully everything will fall into place, but I feel like with us, you never know.

Oliver is sick (again). I took him to the dr. last Saturday and they told us he had a head cold. So I've been suctioning his little boogies with a nasal aspirator (I'll admit -- I kind of like it) and keeping the humidifier on all night. But it sounded like it had started to progress to a chest cold, so I took him to the dr. today, and it turns out he has a little wheezing. So it's back on the nebulizer for our little man. This normally wouldn't be too bad, but he has his surgery scheduled for next Thursday. If he has even a little congestion, they won't do it because he won't be able to go under anesthesia.

I have mixed feelings because while I'm not really looking forward to the surgery, I want him to have it. I am petrified of him going under anesthesia, even though he has already done it once and been fine. Although I am a big believer in and very trusting of the medical profession in general, I'm really starting to feel like less is more. Less medicine, less intrusion, less vaccinations. Ironic timing for this frame of mind, since we are constantly taking Oliver to the doctor for something. Since the surgery is only on his feet, I wonder if the risks are worth it. According to the dr. they definitely are. It sounds like the risks are actually minimal -- I'm just scared. And if we ever want him to have a chance at using braces to be mobile, it has to be done. I just hate the thought of putting a little baby, my little baby, under anesthesia.

So, Tuesday we take him in to the pediatrician for a recheck to make sure he is okay for surgery.

Wednesday I am heading out to Penn State Abington for my first on-campus interview! I'm so excited. I had a preliminary interview with them at the conference in Chicago and they called me back last night. So I have an interview with the chancellor, the search committee, and I have to teach a 45 minutes class in PR theory. Um...I don't really know what PR theory is. I have this weekend to figure it out.

Thursday, if we are lucky*, we have surgery (* indicates that the word "lucky" is used cautiously -- reference my rant above)

Friday holds more contingent plans. If I am lucky (and this time I use the term unreservedly) I get to present my pre-proposal, which is the first part of my dissertation. According to my committe chair, it is finally ready for semi-public consumption. This is pending approval of my second committee member, but Marya (my chair) was confident enough to put me on the schedule. So... yay!

On Saturday we have a birthday party for our friend Cole. He is the adorable son of my college roommate, Julia, and he is turning 3. I love for Mac to get in the playtime, and it gives me a chance to catch up with Julia. My other roommate Dana will be there with her 3 cuties, so I'm really looking forward to it.

On Sunday, Tim and I have a date!! This never happens. We are going to have dinner and go Christmas shopping for our little ones. This is the first time we have shopped together -- usually I pick out everything online. But now that Mac is older and wants every single thing she sees on TV, I feel like we have to shop and weigh our options in person.

And I have to fit in time to work next week, too. Luckily, much of that is mobile.

Okay, so I realize that this might be a bit too close of a look into our lives. Basically the only thing I left out is what I ate for breakfast this morning (oatmeal and starbucks). But I'm bursting at the seams with everything that is going on. Stress level on high, excitement notched up, and the only person home to ramble to is Oliver. He is a very good listener, but he is asleep (maybe he's pretending so he doesn't have to listen to me talk). So please keep us in your thoughts and prayers, and by the end of next weekend, we could have a job, successful surgery, a dissertation milestone, and a treeful of Christmas gifts.

28 November 2007

Fall in Photos

So if you've been wondering where the photos have been, let me remind you about the computer crash of '07 that took with it my photo-sharing software. I'm not one to name names, but Tim lost the original disc, so I've had tons of photos stuck on my camera. Well no more! I hauled my butt to CVS and made a photo CD. So without further ado, here is our Fall in Photos.

2 1/2 is a precocious age...



Evidence that Oliver does sleep.

Family Parties


Pumpkin Picking
Happy Halloween! Note the difference between last year's princess and this year's super hero...






At Christine & Jeffery's wedding -- Mac was the flower girl.
Look at the size difference between August and November!







Happy Thanksgiving!